Being a good friend
In life we must require the presence of others, and in every human life must be like to have friends. But in the process of socialization will be difficult in finding a friend or friends. Friends in my view is someone who can understand, making it convenient, and give the best advice. friends not only a greeting but have a broader understanding and deeper
Friends will always be present in every situation you experience, in a condition to fall, rise, or when you feel alone, and generally a good friend is someone who is willing to do without having a purpose other than stand beside you when you need someone
One of the positive value in establishing the nature of friendship is a mutual understanding of each, this will be very useful in the process of your friendship. If your emotional nature you must be more than happy to communicate with friends who are more gentle. and vice versa. If you have a friend who has the same properties would have established a good friendship difficult. I'm not saying that there will be a friendship, but would be very difficult to find the best solution
If we find a friend will be easier if each has the same preferences (hobbies) because it will not find many contradictions in the conduct or acts. Especially in terms of pleasure (fun). It should be noted is that best friend is a friend who channeled in a positive pleasure, and not harm others
Selfishness is one trait that virtually everyone has, these properties tend to be concerned with the interests, goals, and his own desires. If you want to be a good friend at least self-centered nature of this can be reduced, because I think almost everyone has a selfish nature and can not disappear from one's self
One of the properties that need to be fostered in the process of becoming a good friend is not lying nature, this is the foundattion you in establishing a friendship. Openness between the one with the other became the main capital in friendship. It also will eliminate prejudice, bad thoughts, or allegations that damage a fragile friendship
And the last thing many a problem when establishing a friendship is all about feelings, if you make friends with the opposite sex (male-female) will generally arise over the feelings. It is very possible given the frequency of meetings, conversations, etc.. In some cases, excessive feelings of general will destroy a friendship. Therefore if you experience these conditions setindaknya take appropriate open and honest as this will be very influential in building a friendship
This Information Being a Parents
Being a parent is something that is quite difficult to do at this time, many parents are not successful in educating children. would be much too successful in shaping the nature of a child. at this moment to be frequent conflicts within the family we find. parents are the party who has given birth to and caring for children. Parents also play an important role as a child kharater formation.
between parent and child should be no space stiffness, openness in communication becomes very important. Generally the parents will feel understood a child without a good communication. Parents also often impose the will to his son. indeed the parents are the most entitled to a child.
Children are also sometimes feels too right to be themselves regardless of advice from parents, children feel free to make choices in life. we need to know that a child not be born without a parental role. balance between rights and obligations are also a thing that needs to be applied in family life means there is a balance in terms of demands and responsibilities between parents and children.
Have you ever seen how hard the parents work in support of a child's life? and Have you ever seen how a child is trying hard to be happy parents? if you've seen or experienced it you will surely reap the important things in family life. various problems that arise in the family should be resolved with good communication and effective communication with each message will be conveyed tersebutlah well and properly.
From Wikipedia, said
"A parent (from Latin: parēns = parent) is a caretaker of the offspring in their own species. In humans, a parent is of a child (where "child" refers to offspring, not necessarily age). Children can have one or more parents, but they must have two biological parents. Biological parents consist of the male who sired the child and the female who gave birth to the child. In all human societies, the biological mother and father are both responsible for raising their young. However, some parents may not be biologically related to their children. An adoptive parent is one who nurtures and raises the offspring of the biological parents but is not actually biologically related to the child. Children without adoptive parents can be raised by their grandparents or other family members. A parent can also be elaborated as an ancestor removed one generation"
one measure of the success of the parents can be seen from how the lives of their children, and the success of a child can be seen from how the lives of his parents. indeed this is not an absolute judgment because each individual has different walks of life. but from here we can see that there is continuity between the roles of parents of children and the role of children to parents.
Generally a child will have a strong personality if he is given a hard life example, parents tend to over 70% felt that a child's life can be organized, directed, or even determined by them. we need to realize here is that parents also need mengintropeksi themselves if their demands not be met by a child. acts of violence, coercion, arrogant, selfish should be eliminated in the care of a child if the parents want their wishes followed by a child.
a child is inclined to follow every desire parent if the child feels comfortable, peaceful family life, especially in communication with parents. but if the child does not feel like the above are certainly not going to create good communication with children. child is a candidate to become parents in the future, knowledge about how to care for children is the main capital in family formation. communication is a tool to convey any desire among parents and children.
