Being a good friend
In life we must require the presence of others, and in every human life must be like to have friends. But in the process of socialization will be difficult in finding a friend or friends. Friends in my view is someone who can understand, making it convenient, and give the best advice. friends not only a greeting but have a broader understanding and deeper
Friends will always be present in every situation you experience, in a condition to fall, rise, or when you feel alone, and generally a good friend is someone who is willing to do without having a purpose other than stand beside you when you need someone
One of the positive value in establishing the nature of friendship is a mutual understanding of each, this will be very useful in the process of your friendship. If your emotional nature you must be more than happy to communicate with friends who are more gentle. and vice versa. If you have a friend who has the same properties would have established a good friendship difficult. I'm not saying that there will be a friendship, but would be very difficult to find the best solution
If we find a friend will be easier if each has the same preferences (hobbies) because it will not find many contradictions in the conduct or acts. Especially in terms of pleasure (fun). It should be noted is that best friend is a friend who channeled in a positive pleasure, and not harm others
Selfishness is one trait that virtually everyone has, these properties tend to be concerned with the interests, goals, and his own desires. If you want to be a good friend at least self-centered nature of this can be reduced, because I think almost everyone has a selfish nature and can not disappear from one's self
One of the properties that need to be fostered in the process of becoming a good friend is not lying nature, this is the foundattion you in establishing a friendship. Openness between the one with the other became the main capital in friendship. It also will eliminate prejudice, bad thoughts, or allegations that damage a fragile friendship
And the last thing many a problem when establishing a friendship is all about feelings, if you make friends with the opposite sex (male-female) will generally arise over the feelings. It is very possible given the frequency of meetings, conversations, etc.. In some cases, excessive feelings of general will destroy a friendship. Therefore if you experience these conditions setindaknya take appropriate open and honest as this will be very influential in building a friendship
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